It's so obvious why my wife needs to do to help me orgasm. She still won't do it.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous. Dear How to Do It, I am a 47-year-old man, happily married for 20 years. My sex life with my wife used to be great—our goal was to have each o... [7995 chars]