My Wife Has Always Been a Certain Way in the Bedroom. Now I Finally Know Why.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 44-year-old man and I’ve been married to a 45-year-old woman for the past 15 years. About six years ago, she told m... [8998 chars]