My husband surprised me with an x-rated gift. Now I want revenge. | NYGazet

I wonder how he'd feel if I did the same thing to him.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My husband (we’re both men) brought home a guy for a threesome without telling me, saying he wanted it to be a “surprise.” ... [8898 chars]